As I Journey Onward

I have talked about how young I was when I first Cross Dressed at the early age of 10 before becoming a Drag Queen, also at a very early age. Between the two I am proud to admit and say out loud that they are my life and there’s nothing in this world that can change that for I… https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/as-i-journey-onward/

Humor Me

As our journey through life continues the world around us is changing. Today it is becoming easier to accept who we are and to be that person.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/humor-me-ii/

Overcoming those seemingly Daunting Moments….

It is possible to live your dream. Yes it takes a good deal of fortitude and commitment and you make mistakes along the way, but even the celebs do that
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/overcoming-those-seemingly-daunting-moments/

Unorthodox Perhaps

Like any community we belong to, are there rules for being part of the transgender community? Who belongs and who doesn’t? Are we really one big, happy family?
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/unorthodox-perhaps/

Finding the Balance

…stop being Vicki? Would it be easier? I can stop wanting to breathe but it doesn’t mean my lungs or body will allow it.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/finding-the-balance/

Could this be why I am the way I am?

So far my family have been really accepting and cool with my disclosure, and I had an amazing talk with my older sister that really made me think, what she told me about our mum and what she went through to have kids just might have influenced our fetal development.

Look what the cabaret dragged in!

Anna Secret Poet takes her crossdressing to the next level with a cabaret performance – come see!

Crossdressing – the style is returning!

Crossdressers may think they’re in style! Dressing in woman’s clothes may not be the height of fashion, but crossdressers generally do pay more attention to style than most men. Have you ever wondered – what if crossdressing was normal? In fact, I think crossdressing is normal, though don’t take my word for it.

But seriously, what if crossdressing was an accepted social style – another way to dress and express your personality, rather than something all entwined with sexual overtones or shame and guilt? Let me know what you think.

Think about it…

Vanessa

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Makeup tips for crossdressers and the transgendered

Have you ever been mystified by the vast array of makeup choices available to women? From eyeliner to blush, the makeup choices and techniques can prove to be quite daunting for us cross dressers. The first time I put on makeup I did it all wrong, and ended up looking like an extra from a B movie.

Thankfully I’ve learned a few things about the feminine ways, and I’ve shared some tips on how to apply makeup here: Crossdresser Makeup Tips

Take a look at the makeup tips and let me know your favorite tips for putting on makeup.

Stay gorgeous!

Hugs,

Vanessa

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Surviving Financially as a Transgendered

It’s a week before my wife and I are set to attend the Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar. Financial independence is more important for the transgendered. As it is our livelihood is at the whim of our employer. Being transgendered puts us in an even more precarious position.

When I was writing this article about the transgendered and financial freedom:

I was sorrowful. I was heart broken by the tragic endeavors (such as prostitution) that many transsexuals are forced into just to survive. A month later, I’m more hopeful that by achieving financial freedom we can be free to live as who we are, without worrying that discrimination could force us to live in squalor.

I’m interested, what do you do to ensure that your financial security as you go through a transition?

Hugs,

Vanessa

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