For many, our feminine feelings are at war with our upbringing which often results in hiding our feminine selves from the world. It was no different for Rachel. Between feelings of shame and fear, she had spent years hidden behind closed blinds and drawn curtains. One day, however, that changed.

What’s in a name?

Posted: April 17, 2017 in cross dress

We all struggle to decipher who we are in this world. Sometimes we do not fit into either the boxes that society has set out for us, or the labels laid on us by society or ourselves.

First Shopping

Posted: April 14, 2017 in cross dress

Shopping for clothes is easy for real women, but not so much for a crossdresser. It was a major victory when I bought girl clothes for the first time.

I can laugh about it now

Posted: April 11, 2017 in cross dress

Just as adults can look back and be amused at themselves during their growing years, Brina can laugh at her own expense. For her, the journey and the humorous reflection has become even more important with each passing year.

The Standard

Posted: April 5, 2017 in cross dress

I have to remind myself that “the standard” of beauty that society gives us is the goal, and not something that makes me more or less valuable as a woman.

You Are a What…?

Posted: April 2, 2017 in cross dress

What I mean by that is that it is much easier for an outsider to accept what is concrete and consistent such as a gay relationship, but accepting heterosexual men dressing up in panties and a bras just doesn’t make sense.

Being Someone in Between

Posted: April 2, 2017 in cross dress

Achieving the balance between our masculine and feminine personas is a struggle that many of us face. For Stella, the opportunity to experience life as woman she is has had an immeasurable impact on the man who is her alter ego. Join her as recounts these experiences and reflects on the benefits on her life as a whole.