Crossdressers may think they’re in style! Dressing in woman’s clothes may not be the height of fashion, but crossdressers generally do pay more attention to style than most men. Have you ever wondered – what if crossdressing was normal? In fact, I think crossdressing is normal, though don’t take my word for it.
But seriously, what if crossdressing was an accepted social style – another way to dress and express your personality, rather than something all entwined with sexual overtones or shame and guilt? Let me know what you think.
Think about it…
Vanessa
I too think cross dressing in on the rise as can be referenced from the dramatic increase of the metro sexual. More and more men these days are opting for manicures and pedicures many with polish though normally clear on the finger nails among other salon services. This can also be referenced by the number of young to middle aged men we now see waiting at kiosks across the nation for ear piercing and not just one ear anymore.
I can’t help but think how many of these men and more must be in a muted denial of their cross dressing desires and how much less stressful anxiety could be if silly gender rules were relaxed. It is unnatural to squelch ones desire to be expressive due to something as intangible as gender.
Transgendered people need help. There is something wrong with them. They need to see a doctor. Gay people are sick also. They are not normal. Don’t get into the semantics of what is mormal you know what I mean. Being transgendered or gay ruins people’s lives. Even their own. So do us all a favor and get fixed!
I am not sure if crossdressing is a style returning. I would love for it to become a normal life style though. I must admit, 40 years ago you would almost never see a man with earrings on, especially older men. Now its becoming a common sight and especially so with the younger generation. so if thats any indication of Crossdressing becoming more acceptable as a life style Then I hope it does so soon. I really enjoy wearing womens clothes and finer things.
The new releases of mens skirts by H & M Fashions can only further seeing more men in skirts and dresses. Right now men can get custom made skirts at Skortman.com, plus other sites are popping up for these purchases. I prefer skirts over dresses now but as a boy I loved MY dresses, especially during the summer. If you look at hisclo.com you will see that boys dresses were sold in department stores or via mail-order. This was only 65-70 years ago. I totally advocate the return of dresses for boys. Although the fashions should be updated to reflect todays society. What would be wrong with summer dresses for boys or at least light skirts? Look on you tube or metacafe you’ll see hundreds of boys wearing dresses OUTSIDE to various functions. Mothers dress their sons and should demand that dresses and skirts be made available. I have a friend in Calif. who dresses her son in dresses and skirts. He still plays with boys toys, rides his bike and plays baseball. I have another friend that only has baby dresses for her 2 yr. old. She says it is so much easier to change him when he soils himself. So other mothers should join in promoting the wearing of dresses or skirts for their sons.
Transgendered people need help! Hurry go get some!
To Loritg
Are you just plain ignorant or do you practice. Transgenderism is real.
crossdressing is just the one of the signs of it, plus others both physical
and psychological. As you know all humans are made up of DNA. This DNA is transferred to infants via the mother and father (half/half). Sometimes the human body makes mistakes during developement in the womb. The chemical bath the fetus is bathed in, plus the primary DNA (the mothers) is
not balanced properly. This causes deformations, some are seen right away,
some are not. This can be physical deformities and psychological deformities (not necessarily retardation). the human body is so complex that even physicians/scientists still don’t fully understand it today, but we are making progress.
So before you go making statements that you don’t have the facts on, it would behoove you to remain silent.
Like you said…it’s a deformity. Your words not mine. It would be great if all scientists would agree on what the cause of transgenderism is. Anyway if it’s a deformity then you need to fix it. It’s not normal. All minorities have to come up with some dumb excuse to defend their actions. Gay people need help just like transgendered people. It is NOT normal. If you were born with one foot wouldn’t you fix it by getting a prosthesis? So go fix your problem…the whole lot of you. You people don’t need any special rights (ex. bathroom privelages or employment. I wouldn’t want any of you working for me. You would embarrass my company! Go see where you can get help. Hurry!
I’m sorry you feel that way Lori. I didn’t choose to be transgendered, but I am. Countless transgendered people have been through just about every treatment to “fix” themselves, yet only found peace after changing their gender. If there is a “fix” that is it.
I know sometimes it’s difficult to understand where others are coming from when you haven’t had that experience. Many times I feel frustration and anger at what I perceive as hatred from those on the far right, and wonder, ‘why can’t they just let me be’. Yet I know that every person is worthy of love, and is a beautiful creation from God. Despite the agony I feel at the difference between what Jesus preaches and what Christians do, I know that God loves them with all His heart as well. The diversity He created are the instruments He uses to make music in the grand symphony of the universe.
My only answer is – This is who I am, and with all the grace in me I will endeavor to accept you as who you as well.
With love
Vanessa
Oh come now…nowadays transgendered people feel like they have a right to be transgendered. It is wrong and even the bible says it is wrong. Now I don’t believe in God but if I did I would say that you can’t be a christian and be transgendered or gay. It is an abomination. The fix should be taking the responsibility and facing reality to see a psychiatrist and ask for help. Transgendered people and gays are in the minority…they need help. If you had a child that was born retarded wouldn’t you send them to a school or at least have a teacher that was eduacated in helping your child? Same with this. It’s not normal to be retarded or gay so why aren’t they seeking help? There are some psychiatrists out there that do help transgendered people and gays to be normal. I don’t agree that transgendered people are born that way nor do I believe gays were born that way. Not even the doctors can agree on it. Let me ask you something…are you married? If so did you have a hard time telling your wife? Did she accept? I hear all the time that transgendered people get anxious over telling their wives and then get upset when the wife doesn’t accept. If being transgendered was so normal then why get anxious about telling her? Well, at least I had my say here.
Hi Lori,
Thanks for your reply. Can I ask how gays and transgendered people have harmed you? I sense a deep hurt and anger, which is difficult for me to understand.
Personally, I don’t understand Goth culture, and why anyone would want so many piercings and to walk around dressed in all black with unflattering black makeup. Goths are clearly a minority, yet they’ve done nothing to me, and feel as though they should have the same rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness as I have.
Thank you for sharing what you have to say Lori. While your words are hurtful to me I know they come from an authentic place within you. It would be a blessing for me to understand your viewpoint more.
The divine within me bows deeply to the divine within you. Namaste.
Vanessa
Gays or transgendered people didn’t “harm” me I just think that they all need help. The deceive themselves in thinking that they are normal and clearly they are not. My words weren’t only pointed towards you. I was talking to the gays and transgendered as a whole.
~Lori