Next to going out in public for the first time, the most difficult thing a crossdresser will do is tell their wife. Many of us have kept our crossdressing a secret from our spouse for years. Perhaps we’re lucky and spend a few moments in scared solitude dressed in woman’s clothing, or we sneak a quick try of something from her closet. Yet the guilt and secrecy weigh on us.

We imagine that telling our wife will involve tremendous embarrassment, shouting and possibly even divorce. At the very least we cannot believe our relationship will improve once we’ve told our wife we crossdress. Yet surprisingly there are those who have renewed intimacy with their loved ones, perhaps from divulging a secret that had kept them apart for so long.

There is a right way and a wrong way to tell your wife. Find out how to tell your wife you crossdress. http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/

Lets face it, even for many women the vast array of makeup choices can at times be overwhelming. Even with the Internet, and crossdressing videos to show you how to apply makeup, nothing beats visiting the makeup counter in person. In this post I’ll share three transgender makeup secrets that I learnt while visiting the makeup counter. You will look and feel fabulous! Read more transgender makeup secrets

-Vanessa

Crossdresser Heaven

A great way to increase your traffic is to subscribe to a webring. We’ve just launched a webring, The Ultimate Transgender Webring, which is dedicated to the transgender and crossdressing community.

Being part of the webring lets you connect to other websites in the transgender community, and allows you to increase the traffic to your website. To add your website, please click here

America’s Top Model has a first ever – one of their models is a transgender model. Isis has a great opportunity to do the transgender community proud, and be a role model for crossdressers and transvestites everywhere.

Read more tg model commentary.

Crossdressers may think they’re in style! Dressing in woman’s clothes may not be the height of fashion, but crossdressers generally do pay more attention to style than most men. Have you ever wondered – what if crossdressing was normal? In fact, I think crossdressing is normal, though don’t take my word for it.

But seriously, what if crossdressing was an accepted social style – another way to dress and express your personality, rather than something all entwined with sexual overtones or shame and guilt? Let me know what you think.

Think about it…

Vanessa

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Have you ever been mystified by the vast array of makeup choices available to women? From eyeliner to blush, the makeup choices and techniques can prove to be quite daunting for us cross dressers. The first time I put on makeup I did it all wrong, and ended up looking like an extra from a B movie.

Thankfully I’ve learned a few things about the feminine ways, and I’ve shared some tips on how to apply makeup here: Crossdresser Makeup Tips

Take a look at the makeup tips and let me know your favorite tips for putting on makeup.

Stay gorgeous!

Hugs,

Vanessa

Crossdresser Heaven

It’s a week before my wife and I are set to attend the Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar. Financial independence is more important for the transgendered. As it is our livelihood is at the whim of our employer. Being transgendered puts us in an even more precarious position.

When I was writing this article about the transgendered and financial freedom:

I was sorrowful. I was heart broken by the tragic endeavors (such as prostitution) that many transsexuals are forced into just to survive. A month later, I’m more hopeful that by achieving financial freedom we can be free to live as who we are, without worrying that discrimination could force us to live in squalor.

I’m interested, what do you do to ensure that your financial security as you go through a transition?

Hugs,

Vanessa

Cross Dress

Have you ever wondered what sex your brain is? I mean, whether you’re really male or female inside your mind. A while back I searched the Internet for various tests that evaluate your “brain sex”, many commonly administered to those things about switching genders. I found that while I’m slightly female, my wife has a “typical male” brain.

What sex is your brain?

Take a look and let me know what sex your brain is.

Hugs,

Vanessa

Crossdressing

Did you just find out that your husband is a cross dresser?

This can be a scary and confusing time for you – don’t worry, you’re not alone. There are many in the transgender community who want to help you get through this tumultuous time.

Despite what may seem like a set back, your marriage can be strengthened through this.

I recently covered some of the top questions a wife of a cross dresser will have here: My husband is a cross dresser

You will also find pointers to other valuable resources. If you have any other questions, please don’t hesitate to ask!

Hugs and best wishes,

Vanessa

Cross Dresser Heaven

Hi girls,
Do any of you have more tips on learning how to cross dress and pass
as a genetic woman?
I wrote down a few tips here: learn how to cross dress
but I’m always looking for more advice, so that I can look more
feminine and be more graceful.
Hugs,
Vanessa
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