Discovering my Transsexuality

Posted: October 23, 2011 in cross dress

A few days ago I had sex reassignment surgery, but my journey of self discovery began long ago. Here are my thoughts on whether I am transsexual, and chronicle my journey to self discovery. If you’re wrestling with a similar gender identity crisis I pray my words may help you discover more of yourself.

This road won’t be easy, for you or for those who love you. For me it has been one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done in my life. Before I could only dream about how good it would feel to finally be myself. I am truly blessed to walk this path

Crossdresser Halloween Super Hereo

Halloween is the time when crossdressers can let the woman inside free. This halloween do it in style and save the world! Here are a few crossdressing super hero costumes for Halloween.

What did you dress up as last year for Halloween?

A Symbol of Femininity

Posted: October 12, 2011 in cross dress
A Symbol of Femininity

A Symbol of Femininity

What’s the most powerful symbol of femininity for you? Is it makeup, or stockings? What captivates you such that you can’t deny it, even as you struggle to live as society expects you?

A dress is a powerful expression of womanhood – something that makes you feel as sexy as you look.

“Honey, I’m a crossdresser” can be some of the most shocking and devastating words you’ll ever hear your hunk say. A thousand questions and concerns are now racing through your head. Is this normal? Is he a freak? What do I do? If you’re serious you may even begin worrying about how your parents will take this, and whether you’ll tell them.

This is a stressful time, and rest assured that he must love you deeply to share such an intimate secret with you. This articles provides some words of encouragement and advice to soothe the emotional wounds from hearing that your boyfriend is a crossdresser

Finding a woman’s shoe that fits perfectly can be tough, never mind looking for a stylish accessory to your outfit. Often times crossdressers will go for anything that they can squeeze their feet into – forgetting that just because the shoe fits doesn’t mean it looks cute.

To learn how to find the right woman’s shoe size, and for some cute style suggestions look at this article discussing crossdressing high heels.

Next to going out in public for the first time, the most difficult thing a crossdresser will do is tell their wife. Many of us have kept our crossdressing a secret from our spouse for years. Perhaps we’re lucky and spend a few moments in scared solitude dressed in woman’s clothing, or we sneak a quick try of something from her closet. Yet the guilt and secrecy weigh on us.

We imagine that telling our wife will involve tremendous embarrassment, shouting and possibly even divorce. At the very least we cannot believe our relationship will improve once we’ve told our wife we crossdress. Yet surprisingly there are those who have renewed intimacy with their loved ones, perhaps from divulging a secret that had kept them apart for so long.

There is a right way and a wrong way to tell your wife. Find out how to tell your wife you crossdress. http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/

Lets face it, even for many women the vast array of makeup choices can at times be overwhelming. Even with the Internet, and crossdressing videos to show you how to apply makeup, nothing beats visiting the makeup counter in person. In this post I’ll share three transgender makeup secrets that I learnt while visiting the makeup counter. You will look and feel fabulous! Read more transgender makeup secrets

-Vanessa

Crossdresser Heaven

A great way to increase your traffic is to subscribe to a webring. We’ve just launched a webring, The Ultimate Transgender Webring, which is dedicated to the transgender and crossdressing community.

Being part of the webring lets you connect to other websites in the transgender community, and allows you to increase the traffic to your website. To add your website, please click here

America’s Top Model has a first ever – one of their models is a transgender model. Isis has a great opportunity to do the transgender community proud, and be a role model for crossdressers and transvestites everywhere.

Read more tg model commentary.

Crossdressers may think they’re in style! Dressing in woman’s clothes may not be the height of fashion, but crossdressers generally do pay more attention to style than most men. Have you ever wondered – what if crossdressing was normal? In fact, I think crossdressing is normal, though don’t take my word for it.

But seriously, what if crossdressing was an accepted social style – another way to dress and express your personality, rather than something all entwined with sexual overtones or shame and guilt? Let me know what you think.

Think about it…

Vanessa

transgender